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The Merits Of Dating Sites


One Of The Few Colorful Stories


In line with my blog objective to alleviate the plights of Filipina ladies who jumped on the bandwagon of dating sites in their never ending quest for quality life abroad, I feel it is also incumbent upon me to discuss the merits of dating sites, like a coin which has two sides, its face and its tail, dating sites have their own good and bad sides, too. This time, I’m about to tell a story of a Filipina lady who is residing in a country in Europe, she visited my blog site lately and had confided me her real story which falls on the good side of dating sites. Let’s just call her Nadia.



Her family was known in the community for being kind and living a modest, yet decent life. At the early age of five, she was enrolled in a catholic school by her parents where she became one of the prominent faces in the school campus later on. In the brood of six, She was the prettiest among the three ladies and the brightest of them all in reference to their school achievements. She was the type of person who put all her time in everything she did. In short, she was an achiever and highly intelligent. Since Nadia was human, she was prone to commit mistakes also and she learned her lessons the hard way, too. It was when her world suddenly took its turn and stood still. From this point on, her own travails began and saw the merits of dating sites afterwards.



Following Her Dreams

Like any normal teenagers, Nadia had her crushes and admirers, too. She was the life of whatever party she attended, because her parents wanted her not to be left behind, she was provided with all the things that a teenager like her would need which made her the standout in and out of the school and in her community. One of her admirers was a son of a town official who aside from being rich was powerful in their town. We will call him Jeffry, not his real name. Nadia was actually head over heels to him from the start but she did not want love to cross her path while she was studying. Although she sometimes mesmerized what a kiss and hug from a boyfriend was.



Jeffry was groomed by his father to become his political heir apparent and it was his father’s wish Jeffry would become a lawyer someday while Nadia was an apolitical person who thought too much politics hindered her country’s growth. She witnessed how people became poorer as there was no continuity in every government program. Government officials had come and gone and left the country and its people in the sad state of affairs. Nadia’s dream was to pursue higher studies abroad and work in a world organization like United Nations and to join African mission so she could make a name for herself in a very noble way and make her country proud of her. It’s how what she wanted to be in the near future.



Love Made Her Crazy Sometimes

It’s February and Nadia’s school was preparing for its annual senior ball. It’s a very special occasion that only happened once in a blue moon so everybody in school was so excited in its preparations, besides it was one of the school’s culminating activities, a must for everyone to attend.  Nadia and Jeffry were tasked to do a special dance number to highlight the occasion. The problem was, Jeffrey could hardly dance and follow the steps because he was born with two left feet while Nadia showed some terpsichorean prowess when she easily mastered the steps while Jeffry could not. It’s already late and they decided to go and agreed to continue practicing the next day. Jeffry offered a ride home which Nadia readily accepted.



As they traversed the way to Nadia’s home, the traffic was moving in a snail pace, Jeffry started holding Nadia’s hand, she did not resist his advances, she could not understand herself because she liked to feel Jeffrey’s hand, too. They were not talking but it seemed they were under the spell of something which they could not fathom. She was defenseless and passive to what Jeffrey was doing with her. The car’s tinted windows were the mute witnesses for what they were doing inside the car.

Since it was rush hours already, all the streets were clogged with vehicles and can be mistaken as parking lots. Jeffry tried another way where there were several motels lining up on both sides. She was naive but she was not ignorant. She would want to shout at Jeffrey and told him they were committing a big mistake and it should be stopped. But to her dismay, her mouth could not utter any words and just went with the current and for the first time, she felt her body was burning with desire to be touched, hugged and kissed by Jeffry. “If it is a dream, I don’t want to wake up yet”, she told herself.



When Sin, Took Toll From Her

Nadia was home past midnight, the first time it happened to her. When her parents asked her why she came home late, she answered them politely but she could not look straight to their eyes. “We were so worried about you because you failed to return our calls,” Nadia told them they should not worry anymore because she is already home after which she went to her room to clean herself up and change her clothing.

She could not understand why she felt so dirty and restless after that incident in the motel. But there was that guilty feeling deep inside her. That night, Nadia’s innocence seemed to be blown away from her well-being and was taken over by pride. “Is there anything I can be proud of ?”, she asked herself. Then she remembered Jeffry, she wanted to talk to him to find out if he also felt the same thing, she dialed Jeffrey’s number but to no avail, she received no answer from him after several tries.



In school, the first thing that came to Nadia’s mind was to see Jeffry and talk to him. She missed Jeffry too much which she never felt before. For her, Jeffry was so important figure to her now and she wanted to know how was he  doing, “Is he feeling alright or not ?” Everything in her world had changed overnight. Was she already in love with Jeffry? “Why am I acting like this, ” she asked herself repeatedly. It was past three in the afternoon but there was no sight of Jeffry. Even his friends were wondering what had happened to him. The day was finished already and yet, there was no Jeffry, even his shadow. There was no option left for Nadia but to head home with a broken heart. She felt so sad that she cried so much along the way.


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The Damsel In Distress

“What comes around, goes around.” Nadia learned the bad news that circulated in the campus. Jeffry left to US a couple of days ago. He would stay there and continue his studies and there was no assurance if he could come back again. Why the haste and it was so sudden? Nadia felt her world crumbled and a thunderbolt hit her. She looked up on the skies and ask, “Lord, why it is happening to me, forgive me if I sinned and don’t forsake me, please!” Some of her classmates saw her emotions and got puzzled with the way she was acting. It was so strange for them to see why Nadia felt so bad about Jeffry’s sudden departure to the US. If only they would know what really transpired between them, they would not wonder but she and Jeffry did something in secrecy and she would keep it a secret, no matter what happened.



A month passed after Jeffry left to the US and Nadia tried to pick up the pieces and start over again even if she was still feeling devastated, She did try everything to hide her emotions in front of her parents. She was expecting Jeffry would communicate with her accros the thousand miles and tell her how he missed her. It seemed Jeffry was in a Jurassic place where there was no means of communications. The reason why she could not receive any news from him. She just consoled herself and thought she would hear something from Jeffry any time soon, then again, she cried and pitied herself.



Nadia woke up the next morning feeling some dizziness followed by vomiting. She tried to remember what did she had in supper last night that might have triggered her dizziness and vomiting but she was so sure it had nothing to do with it. Then something popped up on her mind but she was so afraid to think of it. What if she was impregnated by Jeffry. What if she would bear a child and become a mother? Nadia could not find the answer to her question, She saw herself hanging by a thread and would fall down on the ground anytime.



The Truth Shall Set Her Free

What she did was informing the school she was not feeling well and could not attend her class. She had the slightest idea of what would happen next. Without her knowing, her parents were also in a quandary because they were really sure, something was wrong with their Nadia. “Hon, would it be okay for you if we talk to our daughter now, I’m sure something is bothering her lately, she’s acting strangely, maybe she is sick and looks so problematic!” The husband said, “That is what in my mind, too, It’s good that you told me.” The wife heaved a big sigh and held her husband’s hand, then tagged him towards Nadia’s room. “I can’t wait any longer, she must tell us what troubling her and why is she acting so strange to us these days.”



Nadia heard the knocks and her parents voices asking her to open up, she gazed at the mirror in her dresser to see if she looked nice, wiped the tear marks on her cheeks and put a smile on her face to conceal her emotion. She opened the door and let her parents come in. Her father kissed her on the cheek while her mother hugged her so tight. Suddenly, she remembered Jeffry and imagined him kissing and hugging her like what her parents just did to her.

“What’s up darling? We haven’t had any chat nor conversation lately, Your dad and me missed you very much. Something’s bothering you, my dear?” Her mother dearly asked. At this juncture, Nadia could not answer, her body trembled and started crying. She was not used to telling a lie ever since. She embraced her mother tightly, leaned on her shoulders and cried out loud. It released the burden on her shoulder, finally got hold of her strength and told everything to her parents who listened intently.



Her Time To Move On

The doctor called Nadia to come in, “I would like to congratulate you, it is positive that you are pregnant, I made a prescription that will ensure the baby’s wellness.” Nadia nodded and just said, “thank you doctor,” then she got out of the clinic to go home. Her parents were so anxious to hear from her. “What did the doctor tell you darling?,”her mother asked. ” She just confirmed I’ll become a mother soon,” she answered back. “Like what we had planned, we will do everything to make sure your baby will be fine and well until you give birth. You will continue your studies even if you are pregnant.” Nadia retorted back, ” Mama, it won’t take long, my classmates will see the bump on my stomach, I’ll become the butt of jokes in school if that happens!” Her mother was still calm saying, “all problems have their solutions, you shall overcome, darling”. Nadia just hurriedly went to her room and did not utter any words anymore.



Nadia was contemplating to go to school again. She felt she was still not okay to go out and so sure she lost her interest in her schooling. Her baby and her situation were her first priorities now. It’s quite normal for any Filipino families to have relatives living in other countries, specifically in the US. Her father’s brother and sister were in the US, too, for a long time so did her mother who had sisters living in Australia. Nadia said to herself, ” I think, I got the solution to my problem already.”

She went to her parents’ room to see if she could talk to them. Both of them agreed and let her in. Her father’s first reaction was, “I don’t see your uncle and your aunt can accommodate you at this time, they are all hard up and struggling in the US,” Then, Nadia waited for her mother’s words. “It was the same situation darling, your aunts in Australia are not doing good also and in dire straits at this time,” to which Nadia exclaimed, ” when they are vacationing here, they act like they are rich and have plenty of money to spend, now that I need their help, you’d tell me they are all broke!”, The discussion ended without results.



Throwing Her Last Card On The Table.

She texted Jeffry’s closest friends to find out if they knew his US whereabouts. Everyone texted her back with the same answers, nobody knew Jeffry’s address and phone number in the US. Nadia felt so helpless and could not control her crying. At this point in time, she needed someone to comfort and join her in her time of loneliness. Had Jeffry known what was happening to her at this moment, she thought Jeffry would hurriedly come home and console her but where was he now? He was nowhere to be found like a needle fell in a haystack.

Again, she felt some hungriness for sour tasting fruits, she craved so much to eat them, she remembered her cousin who also got pregnant before and who requested some raw mangoes from her quipping she would die if she could not eat what she wanted. She could not help but smile. Nadia knew very well her situation now and she must do something for the sake of her would be baby, come hell or high water!



Suddenly an idea struck Nadia’s mind, why not she tries dating sites?, Nadia knew about dating sites because she is well-informed and regularly browsing over the internet in her free time. After taking a light breakfast and took a glass fresh orange juice, she sat in front of her laptop and logged in. At first, she was quite hesitant to divulge some of her personal circumstances but later on freely gave all the details which were asked in the form she was filling up. She hoped and prayed something and someone would come out and to solve her problems.



Cutting The Long Story Short

The search became successful as if God’s hand was doing it for her. It did not take her long to accomplish all the pertinent papers that would be needed in her departure. She landed in Berlin, Germany where she and her husband Helmut lived in harmony. She was accepted by her husband’s family and being loved so much. She has a child with Helmut while her first born child was named after Helmut’s name, his name sake. They have a blooming construction business in Berlin and her role is attending to the administrative side of their business. They visited the Philippines twice already. Helmut is planning to build a house in her province and settle there when they retire in the future. Helmut has come to love the place, the climate and the people’s hospitality.



Now, Nadia is basking on her glory and she is vacationing together in the Philippines with her husband, Helmut and her kids. Her homecoming this time is somewhat bittersweet because they came home purposely to attend the burial of her father who succumbed to heart attack recently. Nadia knows her father is at peace whenever he is now because he saw her daughter successfully weathered the proverbial storm in her life. Her mother is doing alright and enjoying the company of her grandchildren. Nadia has nothing to be asked for because she is blessed with everything she has wished in her life.




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You Finally Made It

March 3, 2018


You Are About To Go

Everyone in the neighborhood is ecstatic when they heard the news that you are leaving. After some glitches and hitches in your pursuit of a better life somewhere, your time has come and you finally made it! All in the family are saying prayers for your safety along the way when you travel the next more than a thousand-mile stretch to reach the place where you will begin your life’s next chapter. It’s indeed, a long and tiring journey to your new home but it does not concern you at all because what overwhelms you, is the thought that you are leaving the place where you had so much of anything but happiness…. the truth really hurts!

You still remember those days of trying and seeking to meet your Mr. Right through dating sites. Countless shady characters and personas were lined up for you to choose. All sorts of nationalities and skin colors were there for your picking but you preferred a wheel-chaired bound, white skinned, rolly-polly old guy thinking he could be harmless and more humane than the other young colored skinned guys. What struck your mind was most of them looked too old to be your husband as they already looked like your grandfather who passed away so long a time. At least, you could make a broad smile now because after all the nitty- gritty of finding out your life-partner, you finally made it! He is at the other side of the globe waiting for you with open arms. It already sunk in your mind that you would be doing extra chores for him other than your wife’s role of tending a disabled old guy whose days on earth are already counted. Nevertheless, you are prepared for the worst case scenario, if ever.



Seeing Things In Retrospect

Those were the days when you lost your self-respect. There were times you already had some inklings of hopelessness. You were born out of love and your parents seemed to be the happiest persons in the world the first time they saw you. They had the fondest dreams of giving the best this world could offer to their last-born child who was you. At first, everything was quite alright because your laughter brought happiness to everyone who heard it. It was like a making of a telenovela. The house where you were living was aptly called home as it filled with emotions and harmonies, and you were the apple of the eyes of everybody. At a glance, one could have assumed how fortunate was you compared to the others. What a complete irony!

But love and affection could not guarantee a comfortable living. Your father had an on and off job, but more often, he was out of job. Though your mother shared the responsibility of eking out a living by doing some laundry, her income was so insufficient to provide the family’s three square meals daily. Later, it became a hand-to-mouth existence, having something to eat the next day would be remote possibility. As you grew up, you would want to go to school but tightening your belt was the priority, to enroll in school and study with a crumbling stomach was not a good idea because nothing would get into your mind which prevailed upon by your hunger.

You were lucky that there were public schools that offered free elementary and secondary education, but still, you ought to have some money for food and transport. But you really wanted to study so you did some odd jobs on the side and studied at nighttime, you got enrolled and were able to write, read and understand English language, aside from Filipino, your native tongue. And because of the same financial issues, you were not able to finish your secondary education, you had to stop in the mid-stream which was amply enough for you to break the language barrier and be able to communicate with some foreign nationals by speaking broken English.



Life Is Really A Mystery

In your childhood, you saw the big inequality between the poor and the rich people. While you were sporting a worn-out tattered clothing which could be your best, your rich neighbors wore nicely-ironed dress of which by your standard would already worth a fortune. You could not even eat at the famous fast food chain like everyone else did but just watched your well-off peers eating and enjoying their meals while you were salivating. “If God was really fair, why He let me suffer this fate”, you asked yourself. You did not get the answer but somehow, something struck your mind.

It was like you woke up from a deep and long slumber. Then you finally realized you should have lifted up your butts early on and played catch up. No one can turn back the hands of time. If you want something, go for it and work for it. Nothing would happen in cooing. It’s a waste of time. Now is the time for you to take action. “God is always watching above us. He will never let us fail”. The statement your mother used to tell you since you were a kid. It amazed you to know that your parents were able to maintain an enviable life’s virtue even in most difficult times. This was just like a shot of the much-needed adrenalin in your body. You felt more motivated in your quest of changing your life for the better.



Now, you see yourself in the company of like-minded women who opted to take chances of marrying foreigners to change the course of their lives. It was not an easy-peasy task but you have already witnessed some success stories of many deprived women who are now living happily across the globe with their foreign husbands. It seemed dating sites have their own days of glory, too!

You still remember the first time you were taken to an internet shop and taught how to log in and did some scribbling on the computer’s keyboard. You were fascinated by the sounds you made as you touched the keys. It even reminded you the noisy place in your neighborhood where people tried their luck to make some cash by playing majhong game only to head home empty-handed. In this country, poor people could not earn enough through legal means while people holding respectable positions in the government were raking tons of money through unalawful ways and living in luxury with their families. This is the life’s riddle which your mind could not really comprehend ever since.

What You See Is What You Get

Your friend guided you to type some words again after which you became familiar and landed to a dating site littered with photographs of ladies of different ages but with the same objectives of seeking foreign life-partners to get out of poverty where they stuck since their childhood. You were asked to submit some personal information as well as one of your best picture. And the rest was history. You finally got hold of the guy whom you just saw on his picture. From the Caucasian looks of him, he seemed to be lonely, sitting in a wheelchair and living alone in a big house adorned with things you only saw on movies. This guy must be rich!, the first thing that struck your mind.

After some several online meet ups, a “relationship” bloomed and flourished in a short span of time. There was no affection involved whatsoever but just a mere consensual meeting of minds. He wanted to have someone on his side who would take care of his personal needs while you would want to have life security and all. It’s a matter of using each other for each own personal gains.



You visualize yourself now clearly unlike before where you pictured yourself so vaguely. You learned to smile sweetly and broadly once again and your mind started to saunter across the blue horizon. Hope filled your heart that finally, you could make a change, maybe a big change in your life and provide your family the things that will make their lives worth living. There is always an answer to every prayer. The Almighty always listens and has peculiar ways of answering everyone’s prayer, yet, He is the only one who knows what would be His answer. God answered your prayer and He even made your faith stronger so you can regain your self-respect. As you gazed around, you realized, the world is still beautiful and abounded with His graces.


In our darkest hours of uncertainties, we tend to lose our hope and resort to some self-pity in the thought that the Almighty has already forsaken us and subjected us to a never ending life’s trials. Everything will come to an end because nothing is permanent in this world. All of us will leave in our own time, but one thing is for sure, that after sunset, the sun will shine again.

Life has its own highs and lows. In times of tribulations, Poverty is not a hindrance to succeed in life. In fact, poor people have some head-starts over the others because they are more resilient and would not just easily give up. They maybe downed once or twice but would stand up again and fight. They are borne winners and get tougher when the going gets tough. Sometimes, they got the sure-fire formula to realize their dreams. A proof is a number of successful people in our pantheon of greats also came from poverty but they strove hard to make names for themselves and excelled in their fields of interest.


If you are born poor, rejoice and feel proud of yourself because you are destined to a greater height of achievement in which a very few people had been able to conquer and replicate.


Credits go to WA for pictures and images used in this blog.


February 16, 2018

To Date Or Not To Date



Oh My! It’s Love’ Month Again…

This article is already late because February 14 is already in the book. I could have written this earlier had I not been busy with my usual chores which used to occupy most of my time, letting me pass the chance to open up my laptop and scribbled some words with some connections with the Philippine celebration of Day of Hearts, a.k.a. Valentine’s Day. First thing that comes to mind,  to date or not to date their beloved damsels. For romantic Filipinos, this is a special day in which to show to their loved ones how much they love and care for them.

I know it is also being observed by some Filipinos who got married and settled in other countries with their foreign espouses, but the way the Philippines celebrates Valentine’s Day is something extra-ordinary, yet unique. It is very hard to imitate its glamour and pageantry, something to be proud of by Filipinos themselves who still firmly believe in the magic of Cupid’s arrow. To those Filipinos who are love-struck, they are set to go on dating with their partners which will seal and complement the occasion. Some would do it on the eve of the celebration while some would do it on the day of the celebration itself, but some Don Quixotes are still contemplating whether to date or not to date their Donna Dulcineas!



Romanticizing The Event 

Love fills the air as people and lovers alike ecstatically wait and counting days, hours and minutes for the special day. Every business establishment in the hospitality industry is offering different kinds of promos to lure customers and to spike their sales revenues. But the flower shop business is the one making a killing several days before the big day comes as almost all Romeos hurriedly buy bouquets of flowers to manifest their love for their Juliets. But not all Romeos are created equals, some have been able to save some bucks for the celebration while some Romeos who are financially challenged are brooding in one corner, fidgeting their fingers because they are not sure if they  can date their beloved Juliets, who like the others are expecting something nice for them in the forthcoming day of hearts’ celebrations.

Valentine’s Day is a festive celebration in the Philippines, Filipinas turned gaga and love-struck. It even boosts trade and commerce in the country as the Filipinos are preparing for the occasion. Hotels are fully booked already several days in advance. Malls are festooned with decors of red hearts of all sizes and cupid images, literally, the town is painted red and while shoppers are in spending spree for gifts to be given to their loved ones.


An Occasion That Knows No Bound 

Truly, Valentine’s Day is an event for all types of people regardless of sex, relationships, nationalities, skin colors and even religious affiliations. Since all of us were conceived and born out of love, Everyone feels the same heartbeat and passion. We always want to show our affections towards our loved ones, ( although, there are some of us who were born undemonstrative and cold ), but this is not an issue because they also want to feel they are being loved and important to the people they loved.

Even the people that belong to the third sex cannot be outsmarted when it comes to Valentine’s Day celebration. To those well-off individuals, they would want to shower their partners the best gifts available, making their celebrations memorable one. And for some who are out of budget, the celebrations must go on even in the simplest form out of extravagance.

In this world of complexities, we are now abounded with things that become a part of our daily living. We are in the radar of technology evolution, or the age of computer in other lingo. We learned to accept things the way we see them which exhibits our open-mindedness and liberalism.

Before, there were only marriages of men and women as dictated by our Christian teachings, least we seldom see people belonging to third sex openly admitting and showing they are in some serious relationships with their same sex partners. This practice was regarded as taboo in the olden days of our society and people who were involved in this kind of relationship were considered on the road to perdition.



The Dawn Of LGBT Era

As the sun sets to give way to another day, the dawn offers many changes and surprises to all of us. God sleeps with the geniuses and thinks within poets…after which, God has handed down a poetic justice!

It took these people of the third sex almost half a century to finally come out of their closets and to show to world they are living and existing in the same world we live in. Slowly, they were accepted, embedded in the society and appreciated their valuable contributions to different industries they have made names for themselves.

Now, we often see same sex marriage that happened in many parts of the globe because some countries have become liberal towards LGBT communities and has since passed laws allowing same sex marriage in their countries. The Philippines is following the trend, being the only Catholic nation in Asia has already softened its stance vis-a-vis same sex marriage and the present administration is on the verge of allowing it before it finishes its term. If this happens, this will be another moral victory for the third sex communities in the Philippines and in this regard, we can also expect a lovelier and more colorful celebrations of Valentine’s Day in the Philippines in not so distant years.




The world is getting old, so do us. it is completely different from the world we knew before wherein pollution, green house effects, global warming were the words so alien to us but became so familiar with as time went on. Armed conflicts are found in all four corners of the world brought about by contradicting religious beliefs and political upheavals. Hate and anger overcome the people’s sense of righteousness.

Lives and limbs are no sacred anymore but to kill and to maim people is the name of the game in order to move the selfish ambitions of a few to a greater extent. What a dangerous and cruel world we are living now. And in the last three hundred sixty-four days of the year, we lose the heart to understand the feelings of others. We failed to share our love with someone we love, we can’t give something without expecting a return, we know how to receive but don’t know how to reciprocate. Not only we lose the heart to love but some of our sensibilities, too.

It’s good there is Valentine’s Day. The day which we can reclaim the hearts and the sensibilities we lose. At least, once a year, there is a lull in some foolishness of the things we do. Time and again, we reverted to our old form of being affectionate to others and in a day, we learn how to love and be loved again. At least, once a year, we let love rule the world once again. Belated Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you!!!



Credits go to WA for pictures and images used in this article.


January 6, 2018


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To my dear blog site visitors, I welcome you to my first ever blog  site, which is the product of my sweat and labor. A realization of my dream to leave a mark and be known in the online dating industry. At this age of technical revolution, the world has witnessed how technology changed the way we live. Changes that keep affecting our lives, changes that happened overnight. And as long as technology continues to evolve, we can expect a different world we live in the soonest time possible. This is one of the very reasons why this blog site was created. I believe people have the right to be informed, so this is my way of disseminating information through this blog site to the people all over the universe. I truly appreciate your visits to my blog site and my fervent wish that this will not be your last.




In the past up to the present, we were accustomed to seeing our women, the Filipinas or simply called Pinays, marrying foreign bachelors like Americans, British, Europeans, Japanese and other Asian bachelors. The promise of good life is the foremost reason why they did that. Once the marriage become successful, other Filipina relatives will follow suit. A typical scenario is when a Filipina marries an American, this will earn her a chance to become an American citizen and live in America. The same thing happens if Filipinas married other nationalities. In the olden days, meeting and knowing future Filipina foreign partners where done through informal introductions (mostly by relatives and friends), penpals (exchanging letters) and by accidental meet-ups. This became the start of a very good beginning which may lead to something good for the Filipinas.


The meetings will be followed by acquaintances that normally would take time, sometimes several months up to several years depending on how long they developed their relationships that would eventually lead to marriages. There were times, the would-be groom would come to the Philippines purposely to marry his Filipina fiancee, or the other way around for the fiancee, and since means of communications were scarce during those times, not all marriages became successful, especially for couples who were only penpals before they tied the knots.


We had seen in the past how Filipinas were swayed by fleeting promises of foreign nationals through some unscrupulous intermediaries. Some were invited to visit and to meet their prospective life partners to the extent of shouldering travel expenses themselves only to be exploited and physically abused abroad.



The absence of credible dating sites during those times posed perils and to Filipinas who dreamed of marrying gentlemen from across the globe. Some fell preys to lurking predatory individuals who just waited for those opportune times to attack their would-be victims.


gorgeous wedding couple in car

This perennial problem faced by Filipinas could have been avoided if thereere dating sites available those days that would enable them to fully understand the cultures and to know the true characters and identities of their would-be life partners. In so doing, Filipinas can be protected and can be assured of successful marriages with foreigners, notwithstanding a foreseeable life security is ahead of them.



This blog site is dedicated to alleviate the plights of Filipinas who are dreaming of marrying foreign nationals for a better future and life security. This blog site aims to be one if not the best site that will scrutinize, study, check and separate genuine datings sites from fake dating sites for Filipinas.




We will also publish reviews of genuine dating sites that we will undertake on regular basis with regards to the types and quality of the services they offer, and to promote and recommend those genuine dating sites that  would pass our criterias. In so doing, Filipinas will be safe and protected from fake dating sites and their cahoots. Rest assured, we will strive hard to fulfill our commitments to our fellow Filipinas.

Any queries and help you may want to ask, kindly leave them below,  and I will be more than glad to assist you.


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